At times you think that after high school all the girl drama will be over once and for all, But thanks to the mean girl gene it never seems to be over does it. It's hard to admit but we all have been part of this horrid social epidemic-
The Bully- Some people regardless of their social status like to put others down and some think is because of envy or some personal vendetta against the particular person they happen to not like that week, month or year. Some social enigmas you see the bully is one of those kinds of people that picks on any one regardless of size, local or social standing.
You see it a lot in high school and am sad to say some people never leave that mentality, I maybe the only one that noted this trend but in social media it seems to run a little loader then just the hallways or word of mouth.
Bully's have come to find social media and other forms of technology useful to tear a person down to the point of depression or suicide some thing that is quite popular in our youth today, Some think "Hey is acceptable because they did something wrong to me" so they start posting about the person and their family life and go as far as calling their jobs and trying to ruin potential partnerships. This is border line psychotic behavior that some people in this day and age find acceptable.
Take the movie Mean Girls for example, In this movie we see the start and the development of mind games and drama only to end up in a horrible accident and then every one is ok because they talked it out.
Bully's come in all shapes and sizes along with all demographics and on a daily basis woman are the ones that are more prone to become that evil doer of society but what does this get people? what do they need from this ?
Some people believe they get off on the power they might hold "If you can't rule when love, Rule in fear" When people put others down is only because of their personal growth they think they are being threaten and like every thing else the story changes with every one that tells it. Like a myth it starts from the truth and there is always two sides of the story but no one ever bothers to hear both sides even if it's offered to them. Some people are followers of drama maybe this is why we should not spend countless hours on the internet.
We hear rumors from all ends of the earth from one person and we listen and spread said rumors with out knowing the person we speak of or let alone knowing the situation they were in at the time, We just jump on the van wagon and move forward with the lets burn and pillage strategy till is to late. I have seen people die over this stupid social agenda!
Depression is a serious illness and so is suicide some people view it as a weakness and i tend to inform them they are wrong, some people just need the helping hand to pull them out of their dark space and help them move on with their life. But society sees this as a weakness and they do not look kindly upon it.
Let me share some thing with you-
I have suffered with depression for years, Battling depression is not an easy task specially when bullied over your weight, status, mistakes and decisions in life or even your sexuality. Fighting depression is a hard task one that needs a lot of bravery and every day struggle, when people like to put you down because they just dont like the way you breath or what you do or can't seem to accept and move from your mistakes a persona can seem to become over analytic. Being in the public eye makes it more default. Thankfully i have great family that helps and supports me along with great friends that pull me from my bad place and help me get over some things. Its a work in progress.
If you are being bullied or some one is just putting you down their is an age old tactic "STOP LISTENING" i know is hard to do and easy to say but honestly when you stop listening you will find the chains of control have broken and you no longer give those aggressors power over your life!
Be positive and focus on you, If they spend as much time on them as they do on you they would have a very happy life and maybe some amazing things going on them selfs. So do not sweat it !
I say to all the people that dont like me Thank you for thinking of me, am honored that you spend your whole day on me! and you should to .. haters are going to hate that is their job but you can make them fail at it! just focus on making that hate into fuel and fire to move on and do amazing things with YOUR life since it's just that YOURS!
So take these words and run with them
DO NOT HATE DO NOT HURT DO NOT WISH HARM ON OTHERS DO NOT JUDGE DO NOT BECOME A
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